CNA Certification (Written Exam)Communication and Psychosocial NeedsMedium

A family member of a dying resident says, 'If God lets my mother live to see her granddaughter's wedding, I promise to go to church every week.' This statement reflects which stage of grief?

  1. ADenial
  2. BAnger
  3. CAcceptance
  4. DBargaining
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Correct answer: D. Bargaining

Bargaining involves attempting to negotiate, often with a higher power, to delay or change the outcome of a loss. This is distinct from denial (refusing to believe it), anger (blaming others), or acceptance (coming to terms with the loss).

Why the other options are wrong

  • A. Denial involves refusal to accept the situation, not negotiation.
  • B. Anger involves blame or frustration, not bargaining offers.
  • C. Acceptance reflects peace with the outcome, not attempts to change it.

Bargaining Stage of Grief

A stage of the Kübler-Ross grief model in which a person tries to negotiate or make deals to prevent or delay loss.

  • Often involves promises to a higher power
  • Common phrase pattern: 'If only...' or 'I promise...'
  • One of five Kübler-Ross stages

Memory trick: Bargaining = 'Let's make a deal.'

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